Let's talk about motherhood, a topic that often comes with a myriad of expectations and judgments, especially when it intersects with a woman's career. This is a story about my journey as a journalist covering the WNBA, specifically the Las Vegas Aces' championship run, while navigating the complexities of pregnancy and the fears that come with it.
The Double-Edged Sword of Pregnancy and Career
I found myself in a unique position, chronicling a historic sports season while pregnant. It was a time of empowerment, connecting with other working moms in sports, but also a period of self-doubt and fear. I hid my pregnancy, not because of social media trends, but because I was scared of how it would be perceived in the competitive world of journalism.
A Wake-Up Call: Priorities and Perceptions
The turning point came when I was diagnosed with preeclampsia, a pregnancy complication that brought home the reality that my baby's life and my health were more important than any career aspirations. This realization hit hard, especially after a colleague's insensitive comment about my potential being wasted due to pregnancy.
Maternal Health: A Crisis Ignored
The United States has a shameful record when it comes to maternal mortality, with Black women bearing the brunt of this crisis. I, like many others, was unaware of the risks and symptoms, leaving me vulnerable to being dismissed by medical professionals. It took a persistent doctor and the advocacy of my family to ensure I received the care I needed.
The Supportive World of Women's Basketball
In the world of women's basketball, I found a different experience. From the Aces' coach, Becky Hammon, to the players and their families, I received support, kindness, and understanding. They celebrated my pregnancy, offered advice, and ensured my well-being. It was a stark contrast to the stigma and judgment I feared in other aspects of my work.
A New Chapter: Celebrating Milestones
My son's arrival didn't deter me from my career, but it did give me a new perspective. I now have a role where I can tell the stories of women in sports, and I plan to continue celebrating my son's milestones with my own personal parades.
This journey has taught me the importance of advocacy, both for myself and for other women facing similar challenges. It's time we address the maternal health crisis and the stigma surrounding working moms. We can do both, and we deserve the support and understanding to make it happen.
